The Bully and the Bullied: Rebuilding Me
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Speaker : Mary Holloway Randolph
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When : Monday, November 24, 2025
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Time : 01 : 00 PM EST
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Mary Holloway Randolph is a highly respected advocate, counselor, and coach with extensive experience helping individuals move from pain to power. With two Master’s degrees, an MBA, and certifications in trauma-informed care, Mary specializes in restoring broken identities and building conflict-resilient families and communities.
Having counseled both the bullied and the bully, she brings a rare dual lens of empathy and accountability to this subject. Her “Rebuilding Me” framework has helped countless individuals uncover their voice, recover their worth, and rewrite their stories. Through blogs, workshops, podcasts, and outreach, Mary continues to break cycles of silence and build bridges to healing.
Bullying doesn’t end when the bell rings. For many, it leads to a life filled with silence, self-doubt, or suppressed anger. It shapes how they show up in relationships, leadership, and even how they parent. But what if the healing journey could start today?
This course will guide participants through:
- The different forms of bullying (overt, covert, institutional, relational, and cyber)
- Psychological trauma and shame loops that develop in the bullied
- Hidden origins of bullying behavior (neglect, trauma, or modeling violence)
- The effects of chronic bullying on the brain, behavior, and emotional regulation
Mary will break down the empathy gap and teach attendees how to:
- Heal the bullied through validation, confidence recovery, and inner child work
- Reform the bully through emotional awareness, accountability, and communication retraining
- Transform bystanders into active allies
- Build “Safe Identity Zones” in homes, schools, teams, and ministries
The signature “Rebuilding Me” framework will empower participants to:
- Reclaim their self-narrative
- Rewire emotional triggers
- Reinforce protective boundaries
- Rise into a renewed sense of identity
Through real-life examples, powerful exercises, and a blend of therapeutic and spiritual guidance, Mary offers hope that healing is possible—not only for the wounded, but even for the one who once wounded others.
Areas Covered
- Forms of bullying and their psychological impacts
- How bullying patterns show up in adulthood
- Victim identity vs. survivor identity
- Internalized oppression: how the bullied becomes their bully
- Restorative practices for former bullies
- Conflict resolution and empathy retraining
- How to parent, teach, or lead with trauma-informed authority
- RebuildingMe journaling and identity restoration toolkit
Who Should Attend
- Bullying survivors (youth and adults)
- Parents of children dealing with bullying
- Educators and school counselors
- Youth ministry leaders
- HR professionals and team leads
- Former bullies seeking healing and accountability
- Peer support workers
- Life coaches and mental health advocates
Why Should You Attend
- Are you still carrying the shame or anxiety of being bullied, even years later?
- Do you have a child, student, or team member who’s stuck in a bullying cycle?
- Are you ready to unpack your patterns as a leader, parent, or peer?
This course doesn’t just examine the “what” of bullying—it dives into the why and provides a roadmap to rebuild identity, dignity, and trust on both sides. “What if your inner critic was just your old bully living rent-free in your mind? RebuildingMe is about evicting the lies—and restoring the truth of who you are.”
Topic Background
Bullying is no longer confined to schoolyards—its ripple effects can shape identities, destroy self-worth, and follow people into adulthood. Whether emotional, physical, psychological, or cyber-based, bullying leaves scars that can’t always be seen. And surprisingly, even the bully often carries unseen wounds—patterns of pain that they project onto others.
This course isn’t just about prevention. It’s about restoration. As an advocate and trauma-informed counselor, Mary has worked with both victims and aggressors, understanding that both sides are often caught in cycles of brokenness. “RebuildingMe” is a call to heal the bullied, transform the bully, and break generational chains of dysfunction.
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$160.00
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